Women Must Realize This .......!!

There have been strong reactions to the words spoken by Asaram ,Bhagwat,Vijayvargiya(A Minister who i know from my Bhopal days !!), and others about women.These reactions  will continue (otherwise how will Arnab hold on to his TRP ratings ?!!) and some people will indulge in either under intellectualize ,intellectualize ,or over intellectualize the issue .Rape is despicable and perhaps the worst form of a crime in society .Safety of every individual (not just women)  is at stake in a society that appears to be as morally bankrupt as India at the moment .It is a extention of other forms of degradation that we have stooped to inorder to conquer .If politicians ,buruecrats, criminals ,terrorists can get away with loot and plunder ,then one is just a stroke away from just about anything that can one can imagine .It was obviously not just a case of sexual gratification that the six animals were indulging in .How can one explain why they put a rusted L-shaped lever into the genitals of a hapless and helpless young woman and then churned it and threw her out of a bus .Is making a law giving death penalty  for rape ,going to be enough for a crime like this not to happen again ?Even if we have a law in place ,do we have a committed police force to implement it?And most importantly -all of you who gather at various places and burn candle lights ,have you ever paused and thought for a minute -Why did no one offer to pick up a naked girl in freezing Delhi cold and take her to a hospital ?Is our citizenry better than the people we shout against ?Just pause and think .Is abusing using four letter words enough ?
 I can see a point when the godman says that rape laws like the dowry laws can and will be misused. Because everyone is not perfect .We need to build adequate safeguards to make sure that it serves the purpose for which it will be made.I have seen the sexual harrassment clause being used to displace perfectly reasonable and decent people -and at the behest of power hungry men or managements who wanted to topple someone good.Hence a lot of thought must go into it and very strong safeguards to prevent its misuse .I was also distressed how many see it as if its primarily a gender issue .Lets not get pushed into a situation so that a feeling arises that  all men are rapists.I read a very disturbing comment by a very well known Principal saying that they will come out on to the streets whenever atrocities are committed on women .Why not generalize it by saying that everyone should come out protesting whenever atrocities are committed on anyone ?
 At the end of the day ,let us be very clear -nobody can protect you like you. And you and you and you.” .Governments ,police ,and the criminals are not bothered even if you give them votes ,respect them take out processions , call them brothers or fathers or fall at their feet .Please ,please be aware of that .We dont live in a ideal society.Please draw your "Laxman Rekhas",and dont get agitated by such statements .Who is guaranteeing that Ram will arrive to slay the Ravans ?There arent many Rams around . And i doubt whether there ever will be one .So at least be prepared to defend yourself. .I would never trust the government and the police and the moral police ,and on that presumption would never step into a DTC or a scooter rickshaw at night ,unless i was armed .Yes we must allow women and decent men to be armed .And nobody seems to be talking about it .Read this true story which i reproduce from "THE HOUSTON HERALD NEWSPAPER" IN HOUSTON , TEXAS"

Last Thursday night around midnight, a woman from Houston , Texas was arrested, jailed, and charged With manslaughter for shooting a man 6 times In the back as he was running away with her purse. 

The following Monday morning, the woman was called in front of the arraignment Judge, sworn In, and asked to explain her actions. The woman replied, "I was standing at the corner bus stop for about 15 minutes, waiting for the bus to take me home after work. I am a waitress at a local cafe. I was there alone, so I had my right hand on my pistol, that was in my purse, that was hung over my left shoulder. All of a sudden I was being spun around hard to my left. As I caught my balance, I saw a man running away from me with my purse.. I looked down at my right hand and I saw that my fingers were wrapped tightly around my pistol. The next thing I remember is saying out loud, "No Way Punk! You're not stealing my pay check and tips." I raised my right hand, pointed my pistol at the man running away from me with my purse, and squeezed the trigger of my pistol 6 times! When asked by the arraignment judge,

 "Why did you shoot the man 6 times? ~

The woman replied under oath, "Because, when I pulled the trigger the 7th time, It only went click." 

The woman was acquitted of all charges. She was back at work at the cafe the next day!"

We must empower our women to the extent that they are no longer dependent on either the governments ,the police and even the men at home who take their dependence for granted .I know arming anyone is dangerous but as Jeff Cooper writes“The rifle itself has no moral stature, since it has no will of its own. Naturally, it may be used by evil men for evil purposes, but there are more good men than evil, and while the latter cannot be persuaded to the path of righteousness by propaganda, they can certainly be corrected by good men with rifles."

 We must  allow all women to carry weapons till we transit from a barbarian society to a modern one .And hope the governments have the guts to enforce the rule of law to move towards it .It has failed us innumerable number of times and yet again yesterday -it has given Akbaruddin Owaissi enough rope already for the horrendous speech he made .Even if he is arrested -nothing will happen to him .Govts are too frightened to take punitive action .Do you think they will be able to implement the rape laws ?If yes -then they are surely running with the hare and hunting with the hound .!!So many criminals are moving around scot free inspite of damning charges and chargesheets against their name .And some of them are Ministers !!Ha ha -Shibu Soren is calling the shots in Jharkhand .And the assassins of a former Prime Minister of India were honoured under our noses .And the terrorists who attacked the Parliament are still alive ,even after the highest court in India says they should be hanged . !!Imagine .Just imagine .!!